I am mature enough to know that relationships are not one-sided--that true love is a labor of love. I also know facades only go so far. I'll see right through you. Besides, our behavior and actions are the standards by which others define us, not the standards we say we say we want to achieve. To quote Professor Dumbledore in "Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets"... "It's our choices, Harry, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities." Choose substance, challenge, strength, curiosity, creativity... choose me.