I was born close to blind I do have one good eye now I was a workaholic most of my life I had two dates when I was 38 with two different women both one night stands they came on to me came to my place got undressed and stayed all night not that I didn't enjoy it but it was there idea I didn't think that much about it until i was forty six and a woman stopped me in the parking lot at a skating rink angry because I had not responded to her passes in the floor of the rink she is the woman that showed me what passes were and what my response should be we were together for nine months until my job sent me 100 miles one way and her's 600 miles the other I was 55 before I though about dating again I saw a redheaded woman laying naked on a black fur 4 months later we were married and it lasted until she died 7 and 1/2 years later she died over 10 years ago. I have been single sense then.