Im an intelligent, creative guy, with graying red-brown hair, who is interested in people, communities, computing, and maintains a lot of hobbies and interests. I work as an information systems consultant and when there is no work, I play at home! Im a pretty intense fellow, and it takes people who understand and can deal with that, to deal with me, in trust and in love. Im also one of those touchy-feely people, but a bit shy about it at first. I love cuddling, doing things with my friend/partner/lover, and want to find meaning within my relationship with you. You should love big dogs, and can live without cats or tobacco, as I am allergic to both. I am not perfect, and can be both a cuddly bear and a grumpy one, and I am overweight. If you want a very real person, who thinks and cares deeply, you are looking in the right place.