The most elusive of relationships; some say it is but myth, and cannot be attained. A near impossible balancing act between physical intimacy and emotional intimacy. If the pendulum swings too far in one direction, you end up with a one night stand, a single night of unbridled animal passion that leads nowhere. If the pendulum swings too far in the other direction, you start burdening each other with ever increasing "expectations", and things get complicated and messy."
There has to be some communication before deciding to meet - not a long drawn out thing, just enough to decide if we think it would be worth the effort. Meeting face to face is the second step...then we "see where things go". I absolutely will NOT agree to meet you just to have random sex. Not tonight, or any other night. I'm not that bored, hard up, or desperate to jump in the sack.
I have standards, they're pretty high. I like people who are down to earth, confident but not arrogant.
I like guys of my age or older cuz i love dating older men. Sometimes it is hard to explain what causes one person to be attracted to another. It is not always something tangible about their appearance. It is usually a combination of factors. Having said that, please understand, there has to be some degree of physical attraction.
